Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 03-05-2010, 03:41 PM   #16  
Strong is the new Pretty!
 
FitGirlyGirl's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Jacksonville, Arkansas
Posts: 2,237

S/C/G: 245/ticker/1??

Height: 5'2"

Default

My situation with my hubby is similar to weebles, but I talked to him about it before we got married. He knew I wasn't planning to stay the size I was and I told him that if he wouldn't be happy with a smaller me I would prefer he say so before we got married. I'm still terrified because he's never been with a small woman, but he is sooo supportive and he tells me all the time that he is still attracted to me. I have to tell him sometimes to tone it down a little because he says it sooo much.

I can tell you from experience that there are a lot of really fit military men that are REALLY into women with some meat on them. I'm a military brat. Three of my brothers are military. My ex-husband and my current husband are both military. I've know a lot of military men in my life and I have seen a lot more girlfriends and wives that are normal to large than that are all skinny or fitness magazine covers. Also, looks and physical attraction aren't only about weight. Attraction in general is not only physical.

I say be upfront with him as weebles suggested and then give the man a chance. Hey, if it works out then he can help you with your weight loss efforts. Hot boyfriend and trainer in one? Girl, why even think twice?
FitGirlyGirl is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Related Topics
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
W.O.W Labor Day Challenge~~Week 3~~ jcatron243 Chicks up for a Challenge 60 07-28-2008 09:55 AM
W.O.W. Labor Day Challenge Week Six Thread!!! Holyteror Chicks up for a Challenge 53 08-20-2007 06:51 AM
Does anyone have a non-supportive s/o? kindred Weight Loss Support 16 05-15-2006 05:40 PM
The Halloween Hustle and the Sprint O' the Spirits Punkinseed Support Groups 470 11-05-2005 01:16 PM


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 07:38 PM.


We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.
Copyright © 2024 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved. Use of this site indicates your consent to the Terms of Use.