Ya know, I don't know whether or not I'd say I'm afraid of hunger. Hunger for me has always been kind of a burden more than anything else. Just like Kaplods, from the time I was about 6 or so, whenever I'd say I was hungry, my father would immediately answer, "Good! That means you're losing weight!" So, since then, whenever I've felt hunger pains it has always been a depressing sort of "oh no, here we go again" kind of feeling.
My dad hated that I was a chubby kid. He put me on an extremely low calorie diet. This didn't start til I was around 8, but from that point til I was about 16 I was only given very small portions of food, like two soy sausage links for breakfast, and half a sandwich and 6 potato chips for lunch, that kinda "small".
Anything else I ate was food that I sneaked when I was not being watched, which was where the "burden" part comes in. I was a really honest kid, and I hated lying or sneaking around or disobeying my dad. So, whenever I was hungry, I would get irritated because I felt like I had to do something dishonest and "bad" and that I'd have to jump through hoops to be sure that nobody saw me do it and that nobody would find out I was (ch)eating. (Which was never easy when eating lunch in the same cafeteria with two step sisters who were dying to catch me doing something wrong so they could tell on me!
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So even now, this kind of thought persists with me. I don't fear being hungry, but it really irritates me when my body bothers me for food. lol
Thank you very much for asking this question Kira, it succeeded with it's goal as a springboard for self reflection because until just now, I've never EVER thought about this pattern of mine consciously before. I never noticed that I get irritated by the thought of having to eat until I started writing this post, nor had I any clue why I would feel that way. lol! It's amazing the things you learn about yourself when you aren't expecting it!
This gives me a much better perspective on what I need to work on.
Thanks!! ... And thanks to all you beautiful women who have been responding to this thread too! It makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not the only one who was raised to have a "disorder" manner of thinking toward food!