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Originally Posted by YogaGal08
I honestly look back and realize I have been eating and drinking and crying my way through dealing with the emotional weight of loving someone who didn't love me back for the past near 10 months.
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Oh hon, I went through that too. Eating, drinking, crying, the whole nine yards. Luckily I got out of that relationship, but it took me about four years to do so (I don't count the first year of the five since it was actually a happy time). Anyway, I'm glad you got out as early as you did.
It's often easier to stick it out in a bad relationship rather than go into the scary territory of being alone. But I know that beyond all the hurting and frustration I felt over breaking up, a weight was lifted off my shoulders.
Sounds like you're doing ok. If you find yourself in any dark moments ahead, just remember that you have a lot of good things to look forward to. We all do, and we all deserve much more than an unhappy, loveless relationship, even if that means standing on your own.