Since it came up in another thread I am going to put the question out there and assume that we can all handle it because we are grown.
Are you bringing the sexy or you letting your weight be the deciding factor?
I firmly believe we are whole people with a spiritual, emotional, sensual, social, and physical aspects. Because we have all these pieces we have to nourish all of them to be healthy.
Here we encourage and support each other emotionally and socially for our physical health. But do you ignore your sensual side? your spiritual side?
The sensual side is the crux of my thread though and are you taking care of yourself? There is a wonderful book called, "The Women's Sex Bible". I so wish I had this thing when I was in my 20's my relationships and men would have made so much more sense.
Personally my sensuality has becomed heightend as I close in on my 40's and now I know what the term courgar is all about. Men in general I have decided look for my confidence, my smile, and my humor before my weight.
I know I have said alot here. Tell me what you think.