ok, so here is the update. I'm not sure what to think of it at all. Remember, from what i know, he was moving the day after I got my phone....here is what he said back to me.
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yep i got it! im glad you like your phone. if you ever have any questions don't hesitate to call or text. have a good day
I'm totally confused. He was CLEARLY flirting with you at the store and now that crappy reply??
I would just let it go for now, since he didn't ask any questions or anything that would keep the conversation going. But you should be proud you put yourself out there and tested the waters.
At least you don't have to wonder now.
Sorry, hun. Sometimes boys just suck!
Last edited by chickiegirl; 06-01-2009 at 08:33 PM.
I'm totally confused. He was CLEARLY flirting with you at the store and now that crappy reply??
I would just let it go for now, since he didn't ask any questions or anything that would keep the conversation going. But you should be proud you put yourself out there and tested the waters.
At least you don't have to wonder now.
Sorry, hun. Sometimes boys just suck!
I know, right? The only thing I keep thinking about is maybe he was really busy with moving and maybe I should shoot a text over asking how his move went. but IDK.
hmmm
I would leave it on that...
Didn't seem like he was much interested.
If he really wanted he could find 5 minutes to say something nice...
he could had said something a lot nicer in the same time he took to type that boring message.
I don't like to be pushy...
and he has your # now too... so if he wants, he can find you...
But it is really up to you though....
I know, right? The only thing I keep thinking about is maybe he was really busy with moving and maybe I should shoot a text over asking how his move went. but IDK.
My two cents is that you should just leave it. But this is not on you at all -- he was absolutely, totally, and over-the-top confusing with his initial actions.
At least you'll know some of the stuff you can say/do in the future for when the guy is not so confusing!!
The last time I had a sales guy hit on me like that, it was when I joined a gym several years ago. He was all flirty the WHOLE time he was showing me around, asking when I was going to come back to exercise after I signed up and all that stuff, put his number in my phone and said he was going to call me to get me into the gym. Then he actually started calling to see when I was going to see him and stuff. We wound up dating for like 3 months.