Great thread, Lori! It brought tears to my eyes and really helped me realize how far I've come.
I have been a secret binger since I was a child, I can remember at about 5 years old hiding in my grandmothers closet (no lights on) and eating an entire box of Valentines chocolates... and it only got worse from there.
I had a regular habit of going to McD's and buying dinner for me and my husband but I would buy twice as much for me and eat half of it on the way home so that he only saw about half of what I was eating... and the worst of it, we only live 1 block from McD's so I was eating 2 double cheeseburgers and large fries before I got home - ONE BLOCK AWAY! ... and then eating 2 more double cheeseburgers and large fries when I got home. I would even ask for my extras to be put in a separate bag so that the trash was contained in my car and I could hide that and throw it away later... oh wow!
I am happy to say that I have not even been to McD's in over 7 months and currently don't have the desire to go there but everyday can present a new struggle. The first few months of changing my eating, there were many days when I would just go home and cry after dinner because I wanting something else... I don't know how I got past this but I rarely cry over food now.
And there it is... my ugly secret. DH still doesn't know about the McD's binges but he does now know that I have an eating disorder. Actually, I have told most of my family and friends about it and I'm quick to remind them of this when they offer me junk food.
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