Newbie from Oklahoma!
 

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Hi everyone. Im 32 and have just gone thru a major life event that made me step back and look at myself. I have split up with my boyfriend of 7 years, having to move out of the house and realize, Im all alone for the first time. Trying to find me has been increasingly difficult, as I feel Ive lost my identity, living my life for him and his happiness, all these years.

I know one thing for sure, Im not happy with myself now that I can take a step back and look at it from a different perspective. I am overweight, tired all the time, serious joint and muscle issues, poly cystic ovary syndrome, pre diabetic, chronic headaches, back pain, Im sure you can all relate. I also sweat at the drop of a hat like walking across the house just to change laundry, which is so embarassing.

Ive decided to take back my life, and learn who I am. Ive found this to be increasingly difficult, as I grieve for the loss of the man I was going to be with forever, and learn how to live alone.

But, I know Im not truly alone, it looks as if Ive found a wonderful group of people here to support one another. I have around 100 pounds to lose, Im 5 feet tall and any minor movement sends me out of breathe, looking for a chair.

I plan to start with Walk away the pounds and Isometrics, I work at a computer all day so I know I can do that whenever Im seated. Years ago, I used WATP to lose 30 pounds, so I know it works and will be a great tool to get to where I can increase my exercise, who knows, maybe there is a marathon runner locked inside??

Welcome, Emily! I think you're going to find that you really love it here. There is tons of advice and support ready and available. Just keep posting so we can get to know you!

Hi, Emily! Welcome aboard :hug:

Strangely enough, exactly the same thing happened to me 18 months ago, just after I turned 32 - my partner of 9 years and I broke up and I had to learn all over again who I was, rather than being a part of a couple. It was incredibly hard, but I think it was worth it - I'm a much happier person now than I was in the last couple of years of our relationship.

Sounds as if you've made a fantastic start and I'm sure you're going to be a success.

Look forward to learning more about you

Nicole :) :hug:

:welcome2: So glad to meet you. I think it's very inspiring that you're taking the time and effort for you. I have PCOS too, as do many of the ladies here. You'll find a lot of support and lots of friends here at 3FC. Welcome and good luck to you in your journey!

:welcome2: Emily! I look forward to getting to know you better and watching you create your new and beautiful life.

Welcome, Emily! This is a terrific board with lots of great advice and support. I look forward to getting to know you. :)

Hi there from a fellow Oklahoman (well, only by transplant - not born here - :lol:). Glad to have you join us. 3FC, indeed, is a great place to find support for your weight loss (and other areas too!). I can definitely say that 90% of my motivation has come from the support I have received here. Looking forward to getting to know you as we make this journey together.

WELCOME Emily!!!
You can do this!! Life is hard,but we women are strong and I know you can take your life back.

cheryl

Welcome Emily! A newbie okie! Looking forward to getting to know you.

Hi Emily. It's always nice to "meet" another 5 footer. I'm so sorry that you are going through a rough time. But I am so very glad you've found 3FC. This is a GREAT place for advice, encouragement and support.

Those WATP videos are great. I have them and love them. Coupled with a healthy eating plan, you can and WILL be seeing postivie results before you know it.

I really look forward to hearing more from you and getting to know you better. Good luck to you. :)

Welcome, Emily!! :)

I am glad you joined us. The support here is wonderful! Hope to hear more from you soon.............

Welcome to the family, Emily!! Post often and draw as much inspiration and motivation as you can from this wonderful group of people. You've taken the first steps and are on your way to a fabulous new you!

I can't believe that you want to get rid of chronic headaches, back aches and sweating. LOL. We've ALL been there and you'll be amazed at how quickly you'll feel so much better.

Good luck on your new life. Look forward to hearing more from you.

Hello, from one Okie to another! Welcome to 3FC! Look forward to hearing more from you and cheering on your losses.