I do it too. But I'm learning as I go along on this journey. I used to see people and say to my DH, "If I ever get that big, shoot me." or other horrible things like that. I try not to say anything negative about anyone anymore. My initial thoughts are still there though. But now, I can stop myself and think, "You can't do anything until you're ready and maybe they're not ready yet. Lord knows I wasn't ready for a long time."