I have been wanting to post here, but still haven't finished the reading for this week, I've had a lot to do
Still, I wanted to acknowledge what Sillymonkey said, your subconscious does respond positively to words that it relates to and can identify easily. So, to speak plainly to yourself is generally the best way to get the message across to yourself.
Also, I would like to add something that I've read else where, but can't give the person credit for (because I don't know who it's from. It could be the words to a song for all I know. ) I think it's good positive self talk.
You are a child of the universe...no less than the trees and the stars, you have a right to be here. And whether or not, it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
The second comment is sort of a mantra as Angel is refering to. Before going to sleep at night, as your breathing in and out, begin to focus on your breathing. Then say to yourself--when I wake, I will feel refreshed, energized and ready to face the day. Feeling great, twice as motivated as the day before to make myself healthy and happy. I will easily follow my healthy eating plan and be free from any and all negative thoughts, beliefs and ideas about myself. --Before we go to sleep, we are more open to suggestions because we are more relaxed. We can actually speak to our subconscious without as much worry of being interrupted.