I've been weight training for years. I can't see any of my muscles yet, due to the layers of fat I still have, but I can certainly feel them. (I lift 20 lbs for my curls now...so very proud of that!)
And my batwings are so prominent now! It sags lower and lower as I progress with weight loss and muscle growth. Very frustrating, but I am struggling to redefine this as a positive thing in my mind. They are so jiggly now! I'm pretty sure I'm going to need some surgery of some sort some day.
I've been considering getting the shrink wrap procedure
, maybe even this summer. I can't wear tops in the correct sizes because my arms are two sizes bigger than my torso. I'd just like to be able to wear short sleeve tops with confidence, and show off my guns!
In the meantime, I spend time doing body brushing, hoping to get my skin to shrink along with my weight loss. I don't think it's keeping up, but for my age, I have nice skin. People often think I'm at least 10 years younger than my real age.