oh honey. my heart goes out to you. Miscarriages are among the most devastating events in anyone's life, and i'm so sorry you've endured two in such quick succession.
Having said that, I'm not sure that the take-away message is that you're not supposed to have the surgery. The two things seem very unrelated to me [but then again, I'm more scientific than anything else
All i can say is TAKE YOUR TIME making this decision. have long heart-to-hearts with your doc. I'm sure your surgeon will send you to a gyn or two, and that'll be important. After the 6 months, see how you're doing, how you're feeling, what you're thinking. Maybe you'll decide that the surgeon can send in the paperwork to the insurance company - and they'll take some time to decide.
or you might decide to delay the decision once again.
What surgery are you considering? with most of them, docs recommend against getting pregnant until 18-24 months post-op, so this is something you and your husband will have to discuss as well.
glad you're here! we'll do whatever we can to help you. but remember, surgery isn't for everyone. BUT you deserve to look at it from all angles and decide whether it's right FOR YOU