Is that you in your avatar pic? If so, you're hot girl! LOL!
I think this question right here might have answered itself:-
I am losing inches galore, but the scale wont budge
Sounds to me like you are putting on muscle, which is great! You might seem like you're not losing weight but you're reducing your size.
Scales are the
and hey, if throwing them off your balcony makes you feel better go for it! Just make sure no body is below when you do so LOL. I got rid of my house scales over a year ago and haven't looked back. You are doing great don't let the scales get you down.