It sounds to me like she IS happy and proud of you. Why else would she be complimenting you, and bragging about you to other friends?
For yourself, decide what level of detail you're comfortable with. If you don't want to tell her how much you've lost (though you've said she's never asked), then don't. If she DOES outright ask and you still don't want to share, simply tell her, "it's just a number, but I don't want to talk about it right now." If her bringing up how you know all the Points values makes you uncomfortable, talk to her privately and tell her. I'm sure if she knew she was making you uncomfortable she'd do everything she could to stop.
Keep in mind that you have to TELL her these things. She can't know them if you don't tell her.
Change the wagon--Glory87
Unhealthy food isn't a right, nor is it a privilege--lessofsarahtolove
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