It sounds like you were trying to be nice, though I also can see why your post might have disapeared. Just from your explaination, it seems like it may have sounded like a business venture on your part. Really, if you are planning on providing all these services to a fair number of people, it would have been fairly labor intensive for you, or so it seems to me.
Perhaps you could still share your knowlege by posting some of your menus and ideas publically here in the appropriate forums. I'm sure that there would be many people who would find them useful, even if they don't reply. I'm convinced that there are more lurkers on most web communities than there are active posters.
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