Would anyone be willing to help me out? I really need someone to do menus for me for the first little while. I have no idea what to eat because all we eat is junk, processed, carb-full, etc meals. Would anyone be willing to make me a month worth of menus (B-L-D and snacks) and the shopping lists for each day? It wouldn't have to be all at once. Like maybe a week at a time. This would be a godsend to me and my family. It would take the guess work out. All I ask is that you keep the meals as cheap as possible. Let me know if this is at all possible.
Ashley, proud mommy.
100 pounds to lose.
I'm scared to fail and succeed
start wt: 347
Crnt wt: 336
ST goals: 333
LT Goal: 299
Numb, I would hesitate to create a menu for you just because I don't follow any particular plan (just old fashioned calorie counting) and, of course, because I am not familiar with your tastes or cooking habits. But I will be glad to PM or email you a couple of typical days for me and the recipes for them if you think that would help. If they look like the types of food you enjoy then we could go from there. Shoot me a PM if that would help you.
I have a couple of recommendations. First, you might look at www.ediets.com. They charge a fee, but they will do exactly what you want based on the information you give them.
Another idea would be to look into building a menu based on the exchange system. This was developed by the American Diabetes Assn, and is what Jenny Craig is based on and is what Weight Watchers was originally based on. You can get information on it here: http://www.24hourfitness.com/html/24_5/food/exchange/. I don't know your height, but when I weighed what you do at 5'9", Jenny Craig had me at 2000 calories. So, I'd look at eating at LEAST 1800 as described on the site above.
NOTE: Carbohydrates aren't bad, contrary to current fads. You lose weight by burning more calories than you take in. A healthy diet can have 50% or 60% of its calories come from carbohydrates. For optimum health, you want to choose GOOD carbohydrates. I eat some white starch, but I also derive carbohydrates from vegetables, fruits, dairy, and whole grains. So, don't think that you have to banish all forms of carbohydrate -- if you are reducing calories and you try to increase the number of complex (fiber-filled) carbohydrates you consume, you get the best of both worlds.
Here is a link to a bunch of chicks using FitDay - you can go to each ones journal to see what we are eating and how we are exercising...I'm with the responses above - a week of what I'm eating might not appeal to you. (Sometimes it doesn't even appeal to me.)
But you can get ideas from our diaries - and of course from the forums and sites listed above....
Try thinking of it this way - for the most part it's common sense with a little research thrown in. If you think something is junk food it probably is....so avoid it. The more processing that went into making what you are about to eat (unless you cooked it yourself) - the better the chance it isn't good for you. A nutritionist once gave me a tip that my dinner plate should look like 1/2 vegetables, 1/4 protein, 1/4 starch....I found this helpful in that I ate a lot more vegetables this way. There is more to it than that - but it's a baby step in the right direction.
Congrats on starting your journey to being healthier - look forward to continuing the journey for many years to come...if you do it right - it will be more years than if you don't. It might be more work to lose weight than gain it - but it's worth it - I swear!
Here's to a healthier Numb & family!!
I have an outline of what I typically eat posted in my website at http://webpages.charter.net/lenny13/HowDid.html . I don't know if what works for me will work for you, of course. Lactose intolerant people certainly could not follow what I do! But it might give you some ideas.
If you go look at it, you'll note that I list my usual exercise routine in with my usual eating routine. I firmly believe that I would not have lost nearly has much weight as I have were it not for the exercise.
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My weight loss site, with blog, before and after pics, recipes, tips, charts, and stuff. Annie Takes Off
I can see you are feeling a bit overwhelmed by the whole process and I can understand why, it seems so hard sometimes to know where to start. Since you have a computer you can access so many great sites and get all the help you need. I have put together a week of breakfast ideas for you, just pretty much what I have in a week keeping to around 3 points on average except Sunday when I splurge and have around 8 points.
Everything on my weekly menu is easily available at your grocery store. I highly recommend investing in an electronic scale which weighs in both grams and ounces I can't live without mine.
If you need anything feel free to PM me, I will try to get a list together for you of really good sites to visit.
2/3 cup vanilla yogurt 2 pts
1 cup frozen raspberries, blueberries, strawberries 1 point (thaw the berries while making the kids breakfast then add the yogurt)
2 slices WW whole wheat bread 1 pt
1 tbls peanut butter mixed with ½ mashed banana 3.25 points
1 cup multi-grain Cheerios 1.5 points
1 cup non fat milk 1.5 points
Mini frittata ham, cheese, onion, green pepper 2 points Link to Recipe Mini Frittata
1 slice WW whole Wheat Bread toasted no butter .5 points
Hi Numb! It looks like you've gotten quite a bit of good advice here!
In case you wanted more information, here's what I usually do:
B - 1 grain/bread (15g carbohydrate), 1 fat, 1 fruit, 1 dairy, and sometimes 3 oz protein
L - 2 grain/bread, 2 fat, 2 vegetable, 3-4 oz protein, and sometimes 1 fruit
D - 2 grain/bread, 2 fat, 2 vegetable, 3-4 oz protein
S - 1 grain/bread, 1 fat, 1 fruit, 1 dairy
With portion sizes as follows ...
1 grain/bread = 15g carbohydrate and 2g fiber
1 fat = 5g fat
1 veg = 5g carbohydrate (1 cup raw or ½c cooked)
1 fruit = 15g carbohydrate
1 dairy = 12g carbohydrate and 0-8g fat
1 oz protein = 7g protein (preferably lean - 0-4 grams/fat)
This was given to me by my nutritionist and is based on a plan called the Willough plan. It seems a little high on the protein for my tastes, but it's a good plan.
Of course, I sometimes eat less and I sometimes eat more, and sometimes I have to eat a "combination food" and try to figure out how it fits in. I liked this when I started because it was a very easy plan to follow - just fill in the blanks.
Let us know what ends up working for you!
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