I want you to listen up! First off, you are BEAUTIFUL just the way you are! If you cannot understand that within yourself, you cannot make someone else understand it. Secondly, we cannot expect support from people as they will always let you down! You must hold your head up high, make a good life decision for yourself and never ever ever give up no matter what anyone says does or doesn't say or do! Thirdly, this is YOUR LIFE and not his. Personally, I think any man who doesn't support a woman in whatever endeavor she undertakes (unless it can get her killed of course
) is a jackass and should be kicked to the curb! I am well over 330 and have struggled at one time 2 years ago being over 400 lbs! First off, I have an adorable husband who loves MEEEEEEEEEE not the skin outside or the size outside. He told me the other day when we were talking about weight loss and such, "So, you're are a little chubby." (at this I said, COME ON I AM MORE THAN A LITTLE CHUBBY and laughed) and then he said, "Ok, so you are more than chubby. Don't you know I love YOU and not whether or not you are overweight. Besides, I love your......" Now this man and I have been married almost 33 YEARS and I weighed 185 when we met.
With all that being said, though you can grouse about it and that is fine. You can complain that he is a jerk to high heaven to any or all of your friends, family or us here and that is ok too. Just remember, DON'T EVER EVER LET HIM CONVINCE YOU THAT WHAT HE DOES OR DOESN'T DO IS RIGHT! Ignore the eye rolls, shrugs, the yeah I have heard it befores! In fact, DON'T EVEN DISCUSS THAT YOU ARE GOING TO TRY AGAIN, JUST DO IT!!!!! Please make sure you are doing this for you and not to keep HIM or make HIM happy, ok? The wrong reason for anything means failure!
REMEMBER YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL DARLING AT 200, 100 OR 500 LBS! How can we not be, God made us in HIS image?
Take care and good luck to you!
Faye