If losing weight were easy, believe me there would be a lot more people on the bandwagon. There is nothing wrong or unusual about you. You HAVE to be in the right frame of mind to commit to something like weight loss and all that goes with it and it takes up a lot of your time. Step back from it all and look at it realistically. Do I really really want this or is it not that important to me? Can I by pass those cookies for things that I really want down the line, like better feeling clothes and feeling better. Do I have it in me to make a commitment to doing the hardest thing I have ever done? Am I the kind of person who gives up or am I strong and independent and can DO THIS?
Now as you can see, you should be answering yes to these questions is what you really want is to lose weight. We aren't necessarily always ready to do it even though we think we are. I KNOW you have it in you to make a commitment to lose weight and make yourself healthier.
Get involved in one of the threads here that offers challenges etc. Give yourself some incentive to lose weight. Something you really really want and have denied yourself, a trip, new clothes, jewelry whatever. Find people who have succeeded and encourage yourself with their success. Check out my website to give you a boost. If I can do this I KNOW YOU can (www.freewebs.com\trexnonny/
) These things will all help you to stay on task. Come visit at my thread, Time For Serious Fun, here on support, we have tons of things going on.
Everyone is here for you!