I am so sorry to hear about your mother, I hope she is recovering and doing well.
I find that I'm somewhat blind to my family history, as well. For us, it's cancer (on my dad's side). My dad died of cancer @ 62 and my brother's daughter had leukemia @ 3. Both of my dad's parents died of cancer and of the 13 first cousins (including him & his brothers) - only 2 are still alive. Of the remaining 11, one (his brother) died in a car accident @ 19 and one cousin died of heart disease...the rest? All cancer...
Me? I've had melanoma - TWICE (no chemo/radiation, thank goodness!). Oh yeah, and my mom had breast cancer @ 48. Through all of this, did I change my diet? Did I get enough sleep? Did I get enough exercise? Big NO. I knew all those years that I was putting myself at an even higher risk by not eating well, being so overweight, not exercising, etc. - but it just didn't click. Only really clicked for me the year I turned 40 and realized I couldn't have kids and that I needed to be strong & healthy for as long as possible - nobody here to take care of me or my husband except ourselves! I think until it happens to YOU (i.e., you have a heart attack or I get cancer) - it's still somewhat nebulous. We know we have a strong genetic disposition, we know we should take extra care, but we just continue to live in denial...
I totally get it.
Last edited by Lunula; 06-19-2015 at 01:22 PM.
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