i was just going to set up a huge holler about my abs, also.
All i'm getting now is the "you'd better stop now because you're getting too skinny" bit from people but here is that flappy, flabby tummy (around my belly button) that kind of ruins the rest of my shape, i think MOST of it is loose skin and there's nothing i can do about that.
I have a Squeem type corset but the problem with that is you can kind of see the hooks, but i like that particular kind because i need flattening in the front and not necessarily a nipped in waist on the side, even though it does that very well. I'd still like to find a GREAT firm hold cami but i already am in a small and it would have to be pretty firm
I feel your pain! But then again i have nothing to complain about, i haven't had children and you have!