A bit of backstory: My husband is a trainer. This evening we went to see one of his clients. Since 2005 she lost 100 lbs and is in amazing shape now. She injured her leg quite badly while training 2 weeks ago and hubby wanted to see how she was doing. I have only met her briefly one time before. It was a nice visit. We didn't discuss weightloss at all during our visit. We just talked about how her knee was doing and normal everyday stuff.
When I got home I was feeling pretty good and was inspired by her good attitude so I friended her on facebook. I had told her that I would send her a link to a hotel my husband and I would be visiting tomorrow....so I sent her the link in a private message then went to check my email.
I went back to fb a little while later and noticed that she replied. She said thank you for the link....and then she told me that I should check out her fitness and nutrition page - that there is a lot of support and tips for losing weight. I don't think she was trying to be mean at all. I really think she was trying to be helpful - but I didn't ask for any tips or advice on losing weight. Like I said we didn't even discuss weight at all.
I went from having a pretty good evening to feeling horrible I teared up right away when I read the message. I enjoyed myself while we were there. Now I feel like all she saw was just a pile of fat. I feel so humiliated
Just venting...I'm probably just being over sensitive and I'll get over it...but this was a tough one.