I'm most likely old enough to be your mother.
A couple of things I've learned.
You have to be your own cheerleader!
You have to set boundaries.
My Dh is very supportive, in his own way, which is strange, but he's on board. My sisters are supportive! My Mom, who is obese, always has been and always will, not so much. Not my problem.
I have a small, select group of friends, with only one that has any interest in my weight loss/maintaining and workouts.
The point is, I have made eating healthy most of the time a priority! I indulge once in awhile. I workout, on a regular basis, workout of my choice. I don't let what anyone else around me thinks or wants about my choices. They are mine! And I'm not budging!
5+ year maintainer.
The human body is capable of amazing things! But without the mind, it is nothing. Get your mind in gear and the body will follow!
Be selfish about caring for yourself, you deserve it!
Weight Watcher leader! But always a Member first!