I'd also like to add that when we receive repeated inquiries about a post by a member, we try to resolve it in the best way possible. It can be difficult to express ourselves online, and members may not always realize how their posts are received. It is common for our moderators to let members know when something like this happens. It's done with the best of intentions and we certainly don't want any of our members to leave. If we did, then we'd choose to ban instead of inform
We hope you understand how difficult it is to moderate such a large community and hope that you understand that we try our best, as volunteers, to try to keep things running smoothly.