There was a joke on Family Guy which was a poke at how women are treated - "Lois, fat men aren't fat, only fat women are fat".
My husband is about 80lbs overweight, he gets told "Oh, you must be so strong" but his sister (the same amount), apparently "can't control how many croissants she eats", by dad. Really??? I think this is in the minds of a lot of people, to treat overweight women with disdain.
Start: 145lbs around December 2012(*Baby born November 2012)
Mini-goal 1: 140lbs*Achieved January 20th, 2013
Mini-goal 2: 135lbs*Achieved February 18th, 2013
Mini-goal 3: 130lbs*Achieved April 8, 2013
Mini-goal 4: 125lbs
Long-term goal: 120-125lbs
Losing while nursing... slow and steady
Maintainer 2004-2009 & 2 babies & now losing from Nov 2012 - present