So I guess being overwhelmed emotionally + not eating well for a few days + being asked to do something that is really hard for me = bursting out crying on the floor at the gym....
It was mildly embarrassing, to say the least.
My husband is deploying overseas in a couple days and won't be home for 9 months... It's not his first deployment but it is mine, so I kind of don't know what I'm doing. I was fine up until a few days ago when the reality of it hit me. And then came the emotional eating... Because sleeping off a sugar coma is way easier than feeling anxiety, pain, sadness... All those things I have grown up self-medicating rather than working through. I had been very proud of myself for not really feeling affected by DH's imminent departure but I realize that maybe it wasn't a good thing to not feel anything, since it ended up all just barreling down on me at once.
Luckily my trainer was kind about the crying, and gave me a little pep talk. She acknowledged she was pushing me, that's what I pay her for. And it was a hard move, it wasn't just me. I'm just not used to feeling like I can't do things - I can ALWAYS do things even if it's slower or less intense than more fit people - but feeling unable to finish a set was new to me. So all of the sudden it was just all too much and BAM, I'm a weepy girl laying on the floor.
Sigh. It's just a good reminder that diet/exercise does not occur in a vacuum. No matter who you are, you have a life outside of these things, and they all impact everything else. It's important to take care of yourself 100%, because you can't just do one and let everything else fall apart, you know?
There's a life lesson in there somewhere, if someone wants to find it
For now, I need to focus on feeling my feelings - allowing myself to cry and be sad. Because I can't keep eating them away. That just results in awkward gym crying at inopportune times. Better to just own one's emotions, yes?