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I guess if he's not ready to eat healthy then I have to leave it be. I'm pretty quiet about how I feel about it because I don't want to hound him, but he does get irritated w me often when I'm trying to eat healthy.
Well, keep your own nose clean. (ex don't hound)
Then let him worry about keeping his own nose clean and let him hold his own baggage. It's just not reasonable to get mad at YOU because you want to eat on plan to meet your goal.
If he likes to food share, and you miss this... maybe work it into your plan. Like a treat on saturdays, and make it a small thing together. Take a walk to go get a hot cocoa or ice cream or whatever. He can have the big ol sundae deluxe version if he wants while you get whatever is reasonable for you.
Then the rest of the time you can just go "Sounds great! Put it as a maybe for Saturday treat. Yay! I'm so looking forward to our date!"
Sometimes a happy marriage is worth bending a little, you know?
But it doesn't need to overtake your whole plan the rest of the time.
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