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"You look so good now!" What, as opposed to when I was fat?
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This one doesn't bother me, interestingly enough. I guess because I kind of think the same thing. I never thought I looked good fat. I thought I looked terrible. I'd see large women who looked good and I figured I couldn't possibly look worse than them. Yet I couldn't bring myself to believe it. I was just not comfortable in my own skin.
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"What's your secret?" *sigh*
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LOL! I know. My secret? Count calories, exercise, Bodybugg...... Sometimes that's followed up with, by the person who asked, "I can't do that. It's too complicated". OK, whatever. I ran out of magic pills, sorry.
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They hurt even worse now that I've gained most of the weight back.
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I can see why.
You make a good point about compliments vs comments. People should be careful what they say, or how they say it. Sometimes the well meaning comments can be hurtful.