Hi np and welcome to the boards!
Have you checked out the challenge section of this forum? You will find lots of challenges for all sorts of people: Holiday challenges, challenges to lose a certain amount of weight, exercise challenges, etc... AND you'll get more than one person to help cheer you on when you join one. If you don't see one you like, you can even start your own.
Good luck to you!!!
Lost my first 25 pounds on my own and the rest (so far) with Jenny Craig
If you hate starting over...STOP giving up!!!