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Old 09-13-2011, 08:41 AM   #1
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I'm just getting restarted. One of the things that I believed has tripped me up in the past is going gung-ho at losing weight without thinking things through and having a solid plan with milestones.

So, as I'm ramping up the exercise and eating/drinking healthier - I want to be more deliberate in how I measure progress.

How did all of you come to your ending weight goals?

My motivation for beginning again was stepping on the scale and seeing 250.0 -- at that moment I decided this STOPS NOW!

MY gut reaction is to set my GW at 150.0 because it's a nice round number and seems both overwhelming as a whole, but obtainable in small steps (10 x 10lbs or 20 x 5lbs).

I'm 5'7". My lowest weight ever was 135 in late high school, but honestly I had a very unhealthy lifestyle (depravation/binging/overexercising). Over the last few years I've fluctuated between 215 and 240ish. The lowest I've been since college is 195.

I'd appreciate any suggestions....or insights into how you set your goal weight!

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Old 09-13-2011, 08:49 AM   #2
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I'm only 2 weeks into my weight loss/lifestyle change, so no expert, but I figure a series of 3 goals might work the best?

Like, I want to lose 30lbs, but that's not gonna disappear in a couple months. So, 15lbs is my mini goal and I think when I reach it, I'll feel like the next 15 (and maybe beyond!) will be a piece of cake. (haha... the irony)
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Old 09-13-2011, 08:49 AM   #3
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Good luck! It seems like you put a lot of thought into your goal weight However the beauty of a goal weight is that you can change it if you need to!

I've never been thin in my life. I don't know what I would look like at a normal weight, so it was difficult for me to decide on a goal. I first decided to set my goal at the highest possible weight for the healthy bmi range for my height—140lbs.

I'm pretty close to that number now and a few days ago I decided that I probably wouldn't be completely satisfied at 140lbs, nor would I likely be at my goal size of a 4/6. I moved it to 130lbs and while I'm going to shoot for that number, I think I'm going to move into the 130s with the mindset that I can STOP if I feel I'm satisfied (although, honestly? Saying I lost 70lbs would be awesome )

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Old 09-13-2011, 08:51 AM   #4
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I think most people just aim for a healthy BMI. Of course that's a lot easier said than done since every body is different and the BMI scale is kinda flawed.

My goal weight is based on the BMI scale and just into the healthy weight range for my frame size. It's not concrete or anything. I might get to 160 and find I'm completely happy there. I might make it to 150 and decide I can go even further.

It's not really about the number for me. 150 is just a guideline. It's about getting to a size and into shape where I feel good about my body.

You can of course set a number, but at the end of the day it shouldn't be the center focus of your journey. =)
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:03 AM   #5
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I would not worry about your goal weight yet. I would set a shorter intermediate goal. I think if you go over to the maintainers forum you'll find most of them changed their goal as they approached.

Set a goal of 10%. When you get there set another goal. etc.
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:03 AM   #6
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I am also 5'7" and set 150 as my initial goal weight.

The nice thing about a goal weight is that it can change as your body changes.
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:15 AM   #7
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Why not set your initial goal weight to 190? Knowing that you've beat your lowest since college is a wonderful milestone.

I lost weight a couple years back and 172 was the lowest I hit, and I was pretty happy there. So, I set my current goal at 170. When I get to 170 I may decide to go lower, I may not, I may stay at 170 and try to maintain it for a while. The healthy BMI for my height is 140, that doesn't mean that's where I want to be, maybe higher, maybe lower.
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:31 AM   #8
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Welcome! Losing a lot of weight can be overwhelming, so I set a few: 10%, lowest adult weight, 'overweight' category, and ultimate. Ultimate goal takes me just out of the overweight BMI category and 164 is the weight I got down to in high school that I was very happy at. These will all be very significant goals for me, though, and I want to celebrate each one sufficiently so it doesn't feel like such a huge undertaking.
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:38 AM   #9
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Hi there, Aletheia. I started with similar stats as you. My first goal was to leave obese category. I will never forget seeing that flashed onto the Wii screen in front of a room full of adults--wow, OBESE. I knew I must do something. I resigned myself to get out of that category. Once that was accomplished I was feeling better and began to exercise. I remember 165 being my goal for a while. As I lost the weight I became more aware of the shape my body could be in. I logged my eating and exercise and read all I could to understand what foods and drinks my body needed--how specific exercises could help and then restructured literally EVERYTHING to work to my benefit.

I finally chose my goal weight after lots of experimentation and education. I could not determine that when I was just starting. I just started and as the weight came off I readjusted my goal.

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Old 09-13-2011, 10:39 AM   #10
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My first big goal is 199 on my ticker....maybe you can shoot for that and readjust as you get there and keep going down. For me to set a goal of 150 is a little too undaunting for me. As you can see by my ticker, I have set small goals to achieve on the way, then I feel like I am getting somewhere.



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Lose 5% (14#) DONE. 12.15.14
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:40 AM   #11
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I have a goal weight. It's about the weight I was through most of high school and college. I thought I should lose weight back then, but anything more than that just seems unreasonable to me from this distant vantage point. Even that weight seems a little implausible from here. We'll see when I get closer.

The topic of your post is one that crops up pretty often, and I'm always a bit surprised by it. Yes, it's nice to envision how things will be, but it seems a little beside the point at the outset. It's like walking from NY to CA and trying to decide what time dinner should be served when you get there. It's long journey between here an there, and who knows what you'll encounter along the way. Just start heading west, and sort out the details of your arrival when you get closer.

Having a solid plan is a great idea, but also realize that you may need to adjust that plan. Life can throw obstacles at you, and you need to have the flexibility in your mindset to keep on going even if you get thrown off track now and then.

OK, I'll quit with the metaphors! Good luck to you!

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Old 09-13-2011, 11:03 AM   #12
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Thank you all --- you've given me a lot to think about!!! I appreciate all of your insights. I think I'm (for now) sticking with th 100lb overall goal --- but giving myself permission to adjust that on an ongoing basis.

Here's what I currently see as my milestones along the way:
M1: 235 - 15 lbs lost (Target:10/6/2011 trip to DISNEY)
M2: 222 - 10% lost/Into Class 1 (Target: 11/24/2011 - THANKSGIVING)
M3: 199 - 50 lbs lost/Onederland
M4: 190 - Out of Obesity/Lowest Adult Weight
M5: 175 - 75 lbs lost
M6: 159 - Into Healthy Range
M7: 150 - 100 lbs gone!/Initial Goal Weight

And then of course, I will be setting mini-goals/joining challenges along the way. I find the challenges VERY motivating!
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:05 AM   #13
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Originally Posted by Aletheia View Post
I'm just getting restarted. One of the things that I believed has tripped me up in the past is going gung-ho at losing weight without thinking things through and having a solid plan with milestones.
I don't have a numerical goal weight at all. I don't even really have intermediate numerical goals (though I admit that both reaching 200, and reaching 100 pounds lost, felt a bit like intermediate goals as I approached them).

That doesn't mean I don't have a solid plan - but the plan is focused on what I do, not what I weigh. After all, I have more control over my behavior than I have over how my body responds to that behavior. I have found that I can't plan to lose X amount of weight - I don't have control over that, sometimes I lose and sometimes I don't. But I can plan to eat a certain way, to exercise a certain way, to make certain choices, to work at setting up my environment to reduce the opportunities for making worse choices.

Numbers are great, for what they are worth - I weigh myself every day, and I do use them as a measure of my progress. But I urge you to consider building your plan and your goals around behaviors, because these and only these are within your control. If you meet your behavioral goals, the numbers will follow.
High weight: 275 (August 2009) *** Low weight: 155 (October 2012)
Today, working off a partial regain. Current weight: 189.
* Make the best choice I can make, with every choice.
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:15 AM   #14
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There are two ways to determine your goal weight.

1) Check out pictures of women your age/height/body type and choose how you want to become. Take their weight then as your goal weight

2) Find your healthy Bmi range. That is quite easy. Go to a site that calculates bmi and find which weights are bmi 25 and which are bmi 19 for you. Any weight within that bracket is healthy for you and supposedly sustainable.

Good luck!
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:19 AM   #15
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I've been at different goal weights in my adult life. When I was in my 20s, I wanted to weigh 120. In my 30s, 130 sounded reasonable. Now that I'm in my 40s (almost 50), 140 sounds perfect. Now, I don't want to keep raising my goal weight up every decade I age, so 140 it is!

I've been 130 in my 40s for a bit, but I really had a hard time maintaining that weight. Then you have to take into account that I have gained and lost a lot of weight numerous times over the years and have had 2 children. Losing too much weight leaves the skin on the tummy looking really crepey and loose. And the wrinkles on the face look more pronounced. And at 130 my butt got too flat, the girls hardly filled their size B-cups and my face was looking a bit gaunt.

I don't have the money for a tummy tuck, so I'll have to be happy with a higher goal weight to not look so loose and crepy. Plus, it's a bit easier to maintain. I'd be a size 6, which is just fine by me.

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