shish I don't mind the bleach or the dry brittle hair as I shave my head every six weeks ( not skin anymore). I love my wig and am planning to buy more. Its soo easy to deal with especially when you have short hair like I do.
katie I sometimes think the same about young boys. I grew up with a very egotistical brother who was a skinny drug abuser and had that shallow eye look. Yet he would strut around like a peacock...he never called me fat, his thing was "you're just healthy". It's funny though growing up I truly believed I'd never get a husband...my mom and grandma stuck that ugly thought in my head. You're fat, can't cook, clean. And I believed it. But now I see we girls take on too much as far as relationships. We think we can't get anyone especially when guys say they'll only date model types. Dating is one thing, marriage a whole 'nother thing.
I tell my daughter (preteen) not to get hung up on that because as I've learned...guys will date anyone and anything. Guys may sound picky but they are just as wanting as we are. That's where us girls have to be sensible. They're looking to have a "good time/sex" we're looking for a relationship. We have to be the picky ones, not them. And I reassured her that even when you're feeling icky, fat or pathetic theres a guy out there...then I gave her some of my examples which made her laugh.
So there! to anyone who says we're not lovable/or marriage material. For a footnote...when I got married I had the same but as I do now although smaller. It's the oddest shaped butt anyone has ever seen. My mom used to say it was deformed
and said no one will love that butt. When I was dating DH he said he loved my butt because he had a place to put his beer.
even obstacles can't stop us women.......ROAR!