I have no idea sometimes who is female or male LOL unless they have a pic. Ok ladies you can chime in too.....
I have a question....
After coming out of a 20 yrs of abuse (physical and mental) I am now in a great place emotionally with myself. HOWEVER, I also after taking a LONG sabatical from relationships to work on myself, I now have a loving wonderful man in my life I will be marrying hopefully this year.
A STRANGE thing to me though.....
I have quite a bit of weight to loose. Everyone says the nice line I carry it well, your face is so beautiful all that BS but anyway.....
The very fact that my significant other loves me in spite of my weight has caused me not to deal with this issue in my life. NOT that I want it to be any other way...I now am doing this for me....but the fact he does indeed accept me...physically....is VERY hard for me to accept...
DOES THIS MAKE SENSE???
OH and just another tid bit...he is all of 170lbs and eats and eats and eats I've never seen a darn thing like this in my life. He eats cakes etc every night before going to sleep NEVER A POUND GAINED>>>>
I am wondering from a guys perspective how they would feel and also any women ever feel this way?