All very interesting. Thanks ladies.
What prompted me to wonder, was a mag article I read. After some research, it said that men and women approach the whole process much differently on an emotional/mental level.
Basically it said that a man might have a slice of pizza and a beer. Get up the next morning, wander naked to the bathroom, pee and then weigh, if he's up a pound, he'll grunt, scratch himself and decide to run an extra mile and not think another think about it.
The woman in the same situation, will go through a whole barrage of negative thinking, wail, whine, and figure they'll never lose the weight unless all the eat is lettuce leaves and carrot sticks the rest of their lives, while running a marathon every day.
Anyway, that was the gist of the article, that started my pondering on do we make it harder than it needs to be.