I too am an all or nothing person. When I hear of baby steps, which I know works beautifully for others, it makes me
personally want to cringe, because I know just how poorly that would have worked for
me.
But there's all or nothing, than there's ALL OR NOTHING!! You my dear, with your homemade pasta and bread (which I still urge you to watch as they're calorically dense) are most certainly ALL OR NOTHING!!!
What a wonderful challenge and opportunity for growth. But please be open to tweaking as need be. I look forward to hearing of your progress.