I think so many of us don't realize just how beautiful we are because we have been so scarred by how society tells us only skinny people are beautiful. Find that voice within to tell yourself that you are beautiful!
Recognize you are beautiful! You are blessed! Love yourself first.
by the way one more thing 2 add --- self confidence can take u such a long way. i have so many friends who exude confidence, self love and a positive attitude regardless of their weight whether its 300 lbs or 350 or 200 and they have never had a problem finding a good guy. and they definitely make a lot of skinny girls jealous lol