My biggest problem on vacation is that when I am faced with any eating opportunity that is even slightly out of the ordinary, my brain goes into this weird loop of "this is a one time chance to eat this! Go for it! It would be an Epic Tragedy if you don't have X", where "X" could be something truly exotic and special, or it could be a cheeseburger at a diner. Once I realized I did this, vacations became much easier because I developed a response "No", I say to my inner 2-year old "you can have this some other time. This place will still be here. It's not really a Big Deal".
This was a huge breakthrough for me.
The second thing to remember is that it's ok to waste food. If you order sensibly but they bring you a huge portion, eat half and then ask the waiter to take your plate even if others are still eating. Or ask for a to-go box, box up half, and leave it there when you leave. You paid for the experience, not the food.
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