This forum is so supportive and warm and caring, and we're all here for each other (at least that's my impression after a couple of days with you all). And it occurred to me that this might be the perfect place to vent some of the horrible, awkward, embarrassing things about being a fat chick - you know, the things we don't talk about out loud, that cause us to laugh in a self deprecating way, or blush, or pretend we didn't notice - when really, we want to curl up and die. Maybe some of you can relate....if you can, drop me a line and share some of yours.
- Restaurants with small, flimsy chairs (even if they're not really small and flimsy, but they seem that way to me)
- Restaurants with booths that are just too small, and where the tables are fixed to the walls so my husband can't discreetly move it for me.
- Being at the doctors and her having to get out the 'big' blood pressure cuff.
- Same doctors assumption that every possible thing wrong with me would be fixed if I lost a pile of weight.
- Always being automatically given the front seat when I go out with friends, because I'm so big (I know they mean well, I just hate that they have to do that)
- Always being way too hot, and sweaty
- Having the smallest thing make me sweat like crazy....housework, laundry, whatever.
- Having that same sweat running down my back so that I end up with a wet looking butt.
- Constantly having to think about what I'm wearing to avoid the wet butt look - thank god for Skorts
- Suddenly not being able to fit in to shoes that always fit before.
- Getting breathless walking in to my office - so I avoid walking in with people.
- Knees that hurt when I stand up or go upstairs.
- Diarhhea and constipation - but that might be an IBS thing, if so, sorry - wrong board!
- Having a nice, sensible salad with my friends at lunch and knowing I'm going to be starving again in an hour.
- The thought that I'll never be able to eat 'fun' stuff again.
Oh and airline seatbelts that need the 'extra' bit
I think I've exhausted my rant for now.... I'm sure I'll think of some more, which I'll be thrilled to bore you with.
Again, I hope I've not offended anyone....if you have any of your own, 'fun' stuff to share, please feel free.
And thanks for the warm welcome.