Ok, so I've lost 40 lbs (almost) and I am starting to feel a lot better about myself. Clothes fit better, I've dropped 4 sizes. Now, I was never a get up in the am, pick out clothes, do your hair, do your make up kind of girl... But now, I am.. I make a huge effort every morning to curl my hair, do my make up, make sure my outfit looks really good. Heres my prob:
My husband keeps asking me who I'm getting "pretty" for! It makes me insane. I don't think he really believes I have anyone on the side, but just the little digs, you know how men do it. Has this happened to anyone else? How did you deal with it? My first reaction is to flip out just because he would ask that question. But I guess he has good reason. We've been together for 4 1/2 yrs and when we first met (pre-baby, pre-weight gain) I was one of those "higher" maintenance girls. As we've stayed together, I've had kids, gained weight, got comfortable, whatever, I've stopped doing that stuff. So I think he just don't know how to handle that I am starting to feel "sexy" again. I no longer feel like EVERYONE is staring at me when I leave the house cause I am so fat... Urgh, I just don't know how to deal, HELP ME!