Therese,,, I have not heard of this club... but it does not surprise me.
The club does not bother me as much as your need for help with the anger.
I don't give a darn about shallow people sitting in judgement of me or others. BUT I do care about YOU.
Ways to deal with ANGER.
1 Consider the source.
2 Live and let live .... I want the right to be me.. fat or thin. Then I must give that same right to others. They have the right to be STUPID.... thin or thinner.
3. There is an old saying... Everyone has the right to be wrong.
4. Let go and let God
5. Do just as you did... write about your anger... THEN share it with another human being .... THEN go bury it in the back yard or burn it in the fireplace... From then on everytime you start to dwell on it STOP
and say to yourself that you have buried it and it is now God's problem to hande.. not yours.
Forgiveness is not to help THEM... it is to heal YOU.
Just as the Lords prayer say... "Forgive me my trespasses AS I forgive those who tresspass against me."
If I don't forgive.. then I am telling God not to forgive me.
That was an eye opener for me.
I am not a bad person... but I am not a saint either.
I need forgiveness for hating those judgemental people. (Catch 22) LOL
Hope this helps. There is sooo much more I want to write on anger and forgiveness. I know all too well
about this subject. I used to be the President of "Hold a Grudge Club".
Let them go... it is not worth the peace of mind it is costing YOU.