We all know that society frowns upon those of us who are "well rounded". Heard'm all, actually. IF.
"You would be soooo pretty IF you would lose weight."
"IF you'd lose weight you could play that sport".
"IF you'd lose weight, you'd get more dates."
"IF you were slimmer, you could wear that dress."
"IF you weren't so fat, you would have more confidence."
"IF you'd get skinny, you'd make more money... have lots of friends... life would be so wonderful..." blahblahblahblahblah
Sure, losing weight might
actually bring all those things and more. But most likely, it would just make us.... slimmer.
It's a damn shame that people can't see beauty in larger people.
And as I've said 100 times before, BODY IMAGE & SELF IMAGE are two different things. OUR WEIGHT DOES NOT DEFINE US!