When we met, and before I became pregnant with my 5th child, I was a small 115 pounds. (That was 7.5 years ago-our daughter is 6y/o now). My husband has a thing about using food to please the people in his life. He buys goodies for our child. He buys me goodies and a card, and leaves them in my car to surprise me when I get in to leave for the morning. (I know, this sounds sweet). For Valentines day, in addition to a card, he gave me a gift certificate to Victoria Secret and a large bag full of various candies! What can I say? I snuck it all to the trash. (The gift certificate, he assumed I would want VS perfume, but I'm going to save it to use for some sexy loungerie when I feel thin enough to wear that again)!
I am lucky that he doesn't seem to mind what my body looks like, thin or fat, I'm the same person inside. I don't eat the crap he provides, but why can't he understand he's wasting his money?! Incidentally, he even overfeeds our 2 dogs! That's a story for another topic....