I also drink wine, usually a nice glass of merlot or cabernet with dinner or before.....but I always want another. if that's the case, the 2nd glass I consider "dessert".
If it's summer, we often have a Margarita outside on the deck after work...one is enough.....not my favorite, but one is good.
Bacardi and diet coke is nasty-tasting (to me)....If I go the mixed drink route, I like vodka with v-8 juice, celery stalk and a couple of olives.
tieing one on is self-sabotage for me....the next day I feel AWFUL, dehydrated, headache=no exercise and it sets me up for failure
STOP WHINING, SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND PUT ON YOUR SNEAKERS!