Hey, Weezle, you are so funny! I LOVE the exercise where you hold weights (or even just cans) straight up over your head (one arm at a time) and then bend your arm back behind your head and lift it straight back up, and repeat over and over and over until it burns! But then it gets easier! I did this first with 5 lbs weights, and then had to use both 5 lbs to make it harder. Also, when you are doing push up, as others have said, move hands around to target diff. muscles. Try turning your hands out, like having your wrists face each other.
Also, somewhere online, there is a website that has workouts designed for specific wedding dresses. I think you can do a search on yahoo, I will look too. And kissjoy, I WOULD love to have that workout info. I dont know how to PM you (but I can respond), if I could give you my email or snail mail address.
I watched the Today show wedding dress thing this a.m. and love weddings, so I will satisfy my wedding craving for the day!