I mentioned my new coworker in another thread, because she depressed me by telling me I look exactly like a friend of hers who is quite overweight. Well, she depressed me again today! She doesn't mean anything by it, but ugh!
We were instant-messaging each other while waiting for parents and students to come to our classrooms, and I mentioned that my feet hurt partly because I have been walking so much lately. I said I'm out of shape and she said, "No, you're in shape like me. Round is a shape!"
I've always hated that sort of "fat solidarity," to be honest with you. I would never insult someone just because I'm fat too. They don't want to hear it from me anymore than they want to hear it from a thin person.
Of course, later on one of my students said something about her and said to me, "She's twice the woman you are, and more," referring to her weight. Obviously I scolded him, but I couldn't help feeling a little vindicated. Terrible, huh?