Heyas sunseeker... so are you in AK now? I'm a former Alaskan, going to be heading up there for a week on the 20th.
I know how emotionally wrecking breaking up with someone can be, regardless if there was a marriage involved or not. It sounds like you're starting to get yourself back on track mentally, and that's a good thing.
I'm one of those people who lurk around more than they post, but I pop in and shoot my mouth off once in a while.
Welcome!