I used to think that the more people we let know of our plans to lose weight, the more support we can get.
Recently I posted in my facebook page, my intention to kickstart a weight loss regimen again.
Immediately, a female of around 40's who has lost considerable amount of weight and has become slender from chubby, contacted me via inbox, sending pictures after picture of her chubby days, (in which she is still pretty looking) and told me, how I look like her former self, how "bad a mistake" she has made in losing weight (because she has become quite thin), how her "breasts started sagging", etc... Overall, her tone was discouraging of my efforts, very much!
And then another guy, who is in his 60's, writes to me, "What is the point in going against one's genetics? Why try to lose all the weight when nature has destined us for otherwise... it is all in our attitude to make ourselves happy!".
And still some others are not jealous, but still discourage me saying, "We are not made for the viewing pleasure of others!".
What is wrong with all these people? Whatever be it, why don't they stop and know their limits when it comes to others' (good) decisions?
Phew!