Hi! I hope everyone is doing well! Ok, well this week I'm on spring break, and I'm spending it with my aunt and uncle. My issue is with eating here. I like her food and everything, but she likes to feed people HUGE portion sizes of every meal. To make matters worse, she serves a lot of fried foods, for example she made me a fried dumpling for breakfast with some chicken and she gave me some fried dough (cooked a different way) for dinner, with more of the oily chicken. The night before that, she gave me enough rice to feed two people. She likes to serve people, so I can't even get what I WANT to eat, and I don't have control over the portion sizes. She even gave me MORE chicken for dinner earlier on tonight because "there was just a little bit left" and she didn't want to waste it, even though I specifically told her that I didn't want anymore. She and my uncle both know I'm trying to lose weight, because he even commented on how much I lost! I arrived on Saturday, and I ate TERRIBLY yesterday (Sunday), because I after eating her food, bag of jolly ranchers, fiber one bars, and a lot of sunflower seeds. I feel bloated and terrible, and I KNOW that I've gained weight. I bought oatmeal today, because I intend on eating it for breakfast, but she commented tonight that she's going to give us the same fried dough that we had for dinner, for breakfast tomorrow.
I know she isn't doing this on purpose, but I'll feel badly if I said no, but I don't want to sabotage my weight loss any further. How can I get it across to her that I don't want to eat all of that unhealthy food without offending her? I don't want to be rude... also, sorry for any errors, I'm writing this on my mobile.
I really appreciate your help!