I second the group hug. Thanks for being there, online friends.
Mudpie: Interesting about the body types - as I gain weight now, I'm turning into more of a pear. I've always gained as an apple, but now it's clearly a different distribution.
Bill: When we were in Melbourne a few years ago, we were headed to Tasmania when a big storm knocked the wind out of that plan. We were so disappointed -
Neurodoc: Re the wedding thing: I know, I know. It's a totally inane thing to think. It probably stems from the fact that neither one of us wanted a "real wedding", but both of our mothers did so it is a gift to them. It has nothing to do (in my mind) with symbolizing our commitment - in fact, I want to get married secretly ahead of time so that we can have the moment I DID want, where it's just the two of us.
Meanwhile my mother is pressuring me - "did you get your dress?" "what size is it?" etc. - in her own characteristic way. Given that I absolutely hate being in any public spotlight AND having my picture taken, I am entirely dreading this and I really regret that we made this decision. My weight heading the wrong way just adds to the anxiety.
Our new house is absolutely SATURATED in dog urine. I have no idea how they masked it during the open house, but we now realize that it's under floorboards and the (non-grouted) tiles. Plus, there are large stains, obviously dog diarrhea, on the main carpet. They cleverly masked them with furniture placement. It is a bummer. We are huge pet people but I would NEVER sell a house in that state. I suppose that happens to everyone who buys an older house - we knew about the electrical problems etc. but this was an unpleasant surprise.
My little kitty is still eating some - not a ton, but enough for me to rationalize keeping her going. But then I remember she has a tumor invading her jaw bone and then I feel like a monster again.