It's bitter cold here and snowing very hard. When I woke at 4, I grabbed some coffee and headed up to check the water. Thankfully, both places are flowing....we disconnected the water yesterday at the 3rd.
Upon arriving home, DH was rising...grumbling all the way. I was amazed at my detachment from his emotional distress. I am accepting it's just the way he is and no amount of my peoplepleasing is going to change that. It relates to what I said yesterday....I acknowledge it's far easier for me to accomplish necessary chores in my peaceful way rather that expect he should be doing something, too, and then having to participate in his grumpiness. Credit.
So I:
made the bed, folded the laundry, picked up around the house and I'm going to sweep the hardwood floors upstairs.
Back to my 1-2-3
I noticed strong feelings of acceptance around my act of doing this every day. It's become automatic and the results are so gratifying.
Project moves forward with more cleaning yesterday, electrical inspection and new plumbing started. Yay!