This may sound silly as I've just (again!!!) started to lose weight, but anyway, I'm wondering: how far do you want to go in terms of losing? I originally meant to reach a weight I had couple of years ago, when I felt (and hopefully LOOKED) good, although according to BMI I was still overweight (well now I'm obese )
Then I saw some of the BEFORE/AFTER pics here and I was actually surprised that people actually went to being SLIM, gorgeously slim like models even...
So...maybe I should really try and get my weight to NORMAL (for the first time of my life!). On the other hand, and I'll be honest here, I don't want to lose weight to a point where I could NEVER eat anything sweet or had to excessively control what I eat for the rest of my life. I want to get healthy, enjoyable life style, because the only reason why I do this is I WANT TO FEEL GOOD. And having to worry about every single bite is just not what feeling good means to me, if you get what I mean?
My sister and I have always been on the fat side, although she maintains more or less normal/slightly overweight weight for last ten years or so. Couple of years ago she decided to get her BMI to normal lost A LOT, she looked skinny (some would say nicely slim) but she also felt really crap. She never ate properly and was tired most of the time, her face was wrinkled (for 30 years old) and kind of grey...all that just for trying to keep the super low weight she reached (I don't mean she was anorectic, but just too skinny for her body type). So I guess what I mean, I don't want to end up like this. How about you, is it "skinny no matter what", or "healthy, feeling good, able to enjoy something not-so-healthy now and again"? And tell me, should I try for "normal weight"?