Granted I know I do this to myself but I can't help but get annoyed with my friends. I post on facebook my updates and such. and I always ask for people who want to go grocery shopping, work out, etc. and I usually get my normal friends who are going through the same things I'm going through. I'm 22, married, with a handsome son. I wouldn't change a damn thing! (except my weight ) anyways, I posted a status asking people to help me be held accountable! (even though i'd rather come on here) But if my friends know that i'm trying .to lose weight maybe they will make a little bit of an effort to help. They complain about me not wanting to go shopping, out to eat, etc so I figured I'd try to post stuff. Well After I post it I immediately get hits from my going through the same stuff friends. Then I get some from friends from high school.. who don't understand. Well I get like 10 hits saying "I dont acutally need to lose weight or anything, but maybe 5 pounds. I'd love to get back into those 00 jeans! heheh" Okay like this is suppose to help me?!?!? Or "Well I did just have my baby last week I need to lose this baby fat FAST. I heard if you don't lose it within 6 months its on forever LOL" Well I gained weight because I was pregnant. I am this big because I was pregnant. That doesnt help me at all!
How do you deal with people who don't understand that your weight effects your mood, personality, everything?? I need help. I know I can't just expect a "magic pill" I need to work. I need that support.. ugh
Thanks for reading!