For those of you who have lost a lot of weight after being overweight for all or almost all of your life, how do you adjust? How do you let the "fat girl" go? Anyone else struggle with this?
Sometimes my friends get upset with me when I can't see myself how they see me. But what they don't realize is the emotional downside to being overweight almost your entire life to becoming healthy. You don't know how to look at the world, or yourself, any differently. Sometimes I look into the mirror and think, "Wow, how far you've come!," but a lot of the times, I still see the old me in my head and honestly forget. It's hard to remember, when all you've ever really known is a world in which you are obese/overweight.
When I go into stores, I always grab a large. Sometimes I get all "aha, you've lost weight!" mode and give myself a mental pat on the back while I grab a medium, only for the medium to be too big too. When I go shopping with friends, again, they get upset with me, and I suspect they think I'm making a big fuss for attention.
My.. boyfriend/exboyfriend (it's complicated :P) gets the most irritated with me, because I can easily recognize I've lost weight, I can admit I look good, I even get excited over my successes.. and yet, emotionally, subconsciously, I still feel and act like a fat girl.